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Tuesday, 27 November 2012

10 Steps To Get Back Together With Your Girlfriend

Do you miss your ex?  Getting back together is possible.  You just have to know how to do it.

Every girl wants a guy who can understand and connect with her.  There are rules for pursuing a girl after a break up.  I’ll try to explain them in this article about how to deal with your ex.  Getting back together with her using these 10 techniques.

1.)        Don’t be afraid to call her.  While calling ten times a day says you’re desperate, phoning once or twice a week keeps you on her radar.

2.)            Similarly, send her an email from time to time.  Just saying, “what’s up?” gives her the opportunity to reconnect.

3.)        Don’t date other girls.  As long as you’re pining for her, be true to her.  If you do occasionally see another girl, don’t sleep with her if you ever want to get back together with your ex.  Get back together without creating a new “history” with other women.

4.)        Don’t forget her birthday.  A birthday is a great “excuse” to get back in touch.  Everyone likes to be remembered, celebrated, and even gifted on his or her birthday.  So, treat her like a princess on this day.

5.)        Analyse her.  Figure out what she needs in a man.  Be aware of what she says and does when she talks.  You need to understand your ex now more than ever before. 

6.)        Don’t be jealous.  After you’ve broken up, you don’t have any claim on her.  So, don’t exhibit jealousy if she goes out with another guy.  Remember she is your ex.  Getting back together means that you have to understand this basic principle.

7.)        Be on the lookout as to how she acts with other guys.  If she stands up for you when other guys put you down, it’s a good sign she’s still interested in you.  But, if she takes out the butcher knife and stabs you in the back, then there’s not much hope of getting back into a healthy, happy relationship.

8.)        Don’t play games.  When you’re broken up with someone you love, it’s easy to start the “mind games.”  But, you can damage her for life with this kind of behaviour.  You don’t want to hurt her if you want to get back together.  So, just don’t play mind games.

9.)        Power is important.  Hold your cards close to your chest.  Relationships are difficult.  When you are together, you can communicate, but apart, you need to keep your feelings close to your chest.  When you say, “I love you” to a girl you’ve broken up with, you’ve given away all of your power and she has you in a precarious position.

10.)      Be desirable.  During the break up, stay in shape or get back into shape.  Expand your interests.  In short, be the boyfriend she wants.  You already have a history.  If you are even more alluring this time around, she’s sure to want you back.

It is possible to reconcile with your ex.  Get back together using the advice in this article.

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