Do you remember that first feeling of hope when you watched The Secret? My heart was full of desire when I became aware that my dreams really could come true. AT LAST!
Now lets be honest. How many of you began to feel frustration setting in and the hope begins to disappear. It can be pretty quick too. How many of you begin to start muttering things such as:
- “It really seems to work for other people but I’m having trouble getting this right.”
- “Why am I so frustrated. Sometimes I get it right and then it doesn’t seem to work at all.”
- “Why is this so hard?”
- “I don’t think the universe likes me very much.”
- “I’m really trying here and I’m trying even harder every day and it’s still not working!”
If this is you then don’t worry. You are not on your own. Well, did you know that around 97% of the people who first tried the Law of Attraction couldn’t make it work either? AT FIRST! I want you to think about it. Everything we do takes practice before we have any success. A child can’t ride its first bicycle without toppling over first. Right?
Everything you practice is easier said than done. It’s hard to stay positive if you’re feeling frustrated. Don’t you just wonder how all these positive people stay positive when all around them is negativity about the economy and we see war and disasters all over the world? Negativity just seems to scream at you.
So when we fail to stay positive, you know what happens then? Yes – you’ve got it. You start attracting negative things in to your life.
So do you want to make the Law of Attraction work for you without any frustration? Do you want to know how some people successfully implement the Law of Attraction with such confidence and style?
Well, these 3 quick tips will help you to start manifesting like a pro with no frustration and you won’t have to beg the universe anymore.
1. Allow Yourself To Receive
Just like a lost child who approaches a police officer and asks, “Excuse me, can you tell me how to get to the post office? Will you? Will you? Will you? Will you? Will you?” How can the police officer give you an answer if you carry on asking? Right?
Your mind is the same. The universe keeps trying to respond – your mind just keeps transmitting, and transmitting, and transmitting – which makes it impossible for the universe to give you anything because you are not willing to receive!
So, stop exhausting yourself by running around begging people for money and wondering why they won’t give you any. Stop holding out an empty cup that won’t be filled. It’s because you are running towards them so fast and then running away really fast so that they don’t even have a chance to get their wallet out. You need to build some confidence.
Just send out your dreams to the universe and let it go, walk away and trust that the cup will be filled with whatever you asked for in the first place. It’s about timing. When the time is right, you will receive.
2. Be Patient With Yourself
Receiving takes time.
It’s sad to see so many people moving towards their desires then decide that it’s not working for them, which means, “your wish is my command.” Even worse there are so people who use more and more energy trying to make it happen faster!
This is like expecting 9 mothers to conceive and deliver a baby in 1 month. You also can’t bake cakes in half the time by doubling the temperature. You’ll incinerate those cookies to ashes!
The simple fact is there is a natural development time for everything in life and throwing all this energy at it is not going to change anything.
So relax and be patient. Remember that you too, as part of the universe, are also governed by the laws of the universe, and you cannot change the natural development time.
If you remember this, you will less likely work yourself up into frustration, or worse, push yourself into a downward spiral of negativity.
3. Support and Educate Yourself
Like the child who is learning how to walk, you need support. You also need some guidance on how to do it, and also the role models to look up to.
Many people give up because they think that “The Secret” is the “be all and end all” solution. Well, it’s NOT. “The Secret” is just a small portion. It was never intended, and has never been, the whole answer.
Coming to the conclusion that the Law of Attraction doesn’t work when all you ever did to educate yourself was watch “The Secret” 19 times (without looking at changing the habits of other areas of your life) is like coming to the conclusion that exercising is not an effective way to lose weight because all you did is run on the treadmill for 2 hours a day (but you’re still stuffing yourself with fried foods and cheesecakes).
Be hungry for knowledge and seek as much of it as you can. Also, make an effort to be amongst people or communities where you can support each other, learn from each other and also share new knowledge that you have found.
Remember that anything you desire will not be delivered overnight by the Law of Attraction. However, what you need to know is that it will deliver in time!
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