Relationships are fragile bonds that need to be built up and
maintained in order to keep them healthy and allow them to flourish.
Unfortunately, break ups do happen, and they are nerve wracking, stressful and
frustrating. If you are involved in a relationship that breaks up, you may be
thinking that you want to get back at your ex but is this really the best step
to take? One of the most influential ways that you can actually get back at
your ex will not only put your ex in an interesting predicament, but it may
also repair the relationship by showing your ex how important you are and were
to them. So not only are these 5 tips to get back at your ex but they are also
excellent methods for getting your ex back as well.
1 - Be strong. No one needs the needy, and this saying
applies very well when it comes to broken up relationships. You need to stop
begging, clinging or exhibiting the behaviour of someone who is feeling
desperate. Let your ex think that you have moved on just fine without them by
acting strong and moving on. When you've moved on, your ex will realize that
they have not.
2 - Minimize communication. Closing the doors of
communication may appear counterintuitive when your primary focus is to
rekindle things, but it is one of the most important steps when getting back at
your ex or getting your ex back. Take a break from your ex, close off
communication, and let him or her stew for a little while without any contact.
This will allow your ex to clear his or her mind and realize how valuable your
relationship was.
3 - Be flexible. Do not be forceful with your ex, demanding
that they move out, or pick their things up by a certain date. Be flexible, be
a listener and a sympathizer. Your ex will be surprised when they see this side
of you, and it may inspire them to build the lines of communication that were
lacking when the break-up came into play.
4 - Get the heck out! This is no time for you to be alone.
Call your friends and get out of the house. Develop a social network and enjoy
some entertainment in your life. This may not mean you need to date, or even
pay attention to the opposite sex, but you do need to be getting out and
enjoying your time with your friends. Not only will this be therapeutic for
you, but it will also help convince your ex that they lost a gem.
5 - Simply be you. There was a really good reason for why
you and your ex had a relationship to begin with, so go back to being yourself
and let your ex remember why they loved you in the first place. This renewed
self perception of your own self will surely rub off on your ex as well.
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